Bringing What to the Table

Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 21: Bringing What To The Table

When people talk about relationships, they often discuss what others bring to the table.  Everything that is “served” isn’t always a positive.  What are the…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 19: Loving Through Anger

When you love a person and get angry with that person, where is the love?  It is still there, sometimes buried.  But often times, it…

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Submissive Love

Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 18: Submissive Love

Why has “submissive” become a bad word?  In this conversation, we explore what submission should look like in a healthy relationship/marriage. Ellis and Benita are…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 16 Being Sapiosexual

What is a Sapiosexual?  It is defined as a person who is most attracted to one’s brain or intelligence.  How does being sapiosexual impact your…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 11: Safe Love

When we are in love, don’t we want to be comfortable? Shouldn’t we feel that being in love with this individual is our “safe place”?…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 10: Love Lost

How do you act when love is lost?  You are no longer in a relationship.  Can you maintain a friendship? Can you celebrate the divorce…together?…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 9: From Entangled to Untangled

Now that we’ve been entangled, how do we become untangled? How do we become engaged in a love that is free but can continue to…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 7: Healthy Relationships

It is okay to remove yourself from toxic relationships whether it is with a mate, family members or workplaces.  Your health is impacted by all…

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