Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 33: Is Love a Waste of Time?

Do we really need to “love” to spend the rest of our lives with someone?  Does love mean being “in love”? If you cannot meet…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 32: The Approach

We started this conversation about nothing but love but we let it roll into a conversation about our approach.  How you approach a man or woman sets the tone for where the first meeting may lead.

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 31: The Greatest Love

Do you remember a time that you had a love that made you “swoon”?  It was the kind of love that you crave and the…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 30: When It’s Time to Walk Away

Somethings aren’t meant to last forever.  Even it certain aspects of your relationship feels good, sometimes it is still time to move on.  Tell us…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 29: Are Women Aggressive?

Watching a reality show, some of the women who were darker in tone were labeled “aggressive” when they spoke out or spoke up about almost…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 27: Is Love Blind?

We talk a lot of about the beauty within but do we really mean that?  Can love be blind?  Looks aren’t everything or is it?…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 26: Fake Love

If you haven’t listened to the conversation between James Baldwin and Nikki Giovanni, you should either go to our Facebook page or YouTube to see…

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Immature Love

Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 25: Immature Love

This was a challenging show to record.  Benita was dealing with this personally at the time but was doing her absolute best not to call…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 24: Love v. Lust

Feeling like this is a “throwback” show, we discuss our opinion of the differences between the two.  We’ve all be there where we felt it…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 23: Loving The Wrong Person

What’s worst? Loving the Wrong Person or finding the right person as the wrong time?  Both are painful.  In this episode, we talk about loving…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 22: What Men Want

After asking several men what they wanted in a relationship with a woman, Benita sat quietly and listened.  This fun conversation was full of candid…

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Submissive Love

Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 18: Submissive Love

Why has “submissive” become a bad word?  In this conversation, we explore what submission should look like in a healthy relationship/marriage. Ellis and Benita are…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 17: Back to Love

Have you ever looked back on love and realized that it could have easily been fixed? But because you told the world all your business,…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 8: Entanglement

After all of the noise after the Red Table Talk with Will and Jada, we just wanted to weigh in with our take on the…

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