Immature Love

Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 25: Immature Love

This was a challenging show to record.  Benita was dealing with this personally at the time but was doing her absolute best not to call…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 24: Love v. Lust

Feeling like this is a “throwback” show, we discuss our opinion of the differences between the two.  We’ve all be there where we felt it…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita

Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 23: Loving The Wrong Person

What’s worst? Loving the Wrong Person or finding the right person as the wrong time?  Both are painful.  In this episode, we talk about loving…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita

Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 22: What Men Want

After asking several men what they wanted in a relationship with a woman, Benita sat quietly and listened.  This fun conversation was full of candid…

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Bringing What to the Table

Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 21: Bringing What To The Table

When people talk about relationships, they often discuss what others bring to the table.  Everything that is “served” isn’t always a positive.  What are the…

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Episode 20

Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 20: Connections and Vibes

We call it “energy”. It is a soul-connection that makes you want to know more.  It is what we are talking about in this podcast–…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 19: Loving Through Anger

When you love a person and get angry with that person, where is the love?  It is still there, sometimes buried.  But often times, it…

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Submissive Love

Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 18: Submissive Love

Why has “submissive” become a bad word?  In this conversation, we explore what submission should look like in a healthy relationship/marriage. Ellis and Benita are…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 17: Back to Love

Have you ever looked back on love and realized that it could have easily been fixed? But because you told the world all your business,…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 16 Being Sapiosexual

What is a Sapiosexual?  It is defined as a person who is most attracted to one’s brain or intelligence.  How does being sapiosexual impact your…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 15: Manifested Love

Put it in the Universe, and it will come!  Manifested Love is a vibrant conversation about how we can ask for what we want and…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 13: Love at 50!

Finding a mate and maintaining a relationship at 50 has been met with “beautiful” challenges.  What have you found to be the most refreshing aspects…

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 12: Wounded Love

Many people have been hurt in their lives, loves and relationships.  How do they move forward or bounce back while leaving the bad baggage behind. …

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Love Wins with Ellis and Benita Episode 11: Safe Love

When we are in love, don’t we want to be comfortable? Shouldn’t we feel that being in love with this individual is our “safe place”?…

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